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If you're so smart, why ain't you rich?
Becoming a
millionaire is not just a matter of book smarts. There is a psychology of
wealth.
We've all
heard the stories of the person who dropped out of high school and went on
to become a millionaire after they invented some product or offered a new
service, living happily ever after.
And we've
heard about the person with a college education and above-average I.Q. who
winds up in a succession of minimum wage jobs and never achieves the
financial success that seemed almost inevitable when they were in school.
What
happened?
According to
T. Harv Eker, best-selling author and creator of the Millionaire Mind
Intensive Seminar, what happened was a major difference in the 'money
blueprint' of these two individuals.
The
subconscious beliefs we have about money, wealth and success determine the
kind of results we get in our life. The so-called 'money blueprint' has a
great deal more to do with where we wind up financially than what we are
traditionally taught in school.
If you could
get into the head of a millionaire and learn their secrets of the
millionaire mind, you would see that they consistently think differently
about money and success than people of lesser means.
Harv Eker
says it this way; 'Your inner world determines your outer world'. It works
in a logical sequence of steps. Your thoughts determine how you feel, your
feelings determine your actions and your actions lead to your results.
The insidious
thing about these thoughts and beliefs is that they are in our subconscious
mind, and are often the opposite of our conscious thoughts. But the
subconscious thought will eventually win out over the conscious one because
it keeps 'working' just under the surface to keep us in a certain 'comfort
zone'. The effect is to undermine and sabotage our efforts toward success.
For example,
if you think (subconsciously) that money is bad or is the root of all evil
you will have negative feelings about money and wealth. You will not take
the actions necessary to accumulate any degree of wealth and without action
you will definitely not achieve wealth and financial freedom.
If, on the
other hand, you think (subconsciously) that money is a good thing, positive
thoughts will lead to good feelings about wealth accumulation and you will
find yourself taking the appropriate action. Your results will be wealth and
financial freedom.
The
subconscious thought will ALWAYS win out in the long run.
Where did
these beliefs come from?
These
thoughts, beliefs and ideas became ingrained and embedded in our
subconscious minds by well-meaning authority figures like parents and
teachers, and by our own experiences. This happened when we were children
and had little ability to discern opinion from fact.
Where we are
now financially, and how we think today, are the sum total of all those
inputs. The computer industry has a crude phrase for this, 'Garbage in,
garbage out'. And likewise, 'Quality in, quality out.'
But once
you're aware of the connection between beliefs, actions, and results, you
can make any needed correction in your life.
First you
need to take an inventory of your subconscious and conscious beliefs about
money and wealth. And then with the right tools and exercises you can
examine the actual 'truth' of those beliefs and begin to change the beliefs
and related behaviors that keep you from reaching your potential.
This process
of self-discovery takes some effort but it is one of the most rewarding
things you will ever do. I encourage you to do so. Then you will understand
the secrets of the millionaire mind and both you and your family will enjoy
the benefits.
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